A summary of some thoughts this weekend:
We westerners seem to want to control everything. We carefully plan when it is suitable for a new life to enter the world, so that it won’t shake our own plans too much. And we also want to keep the exit of life in our hands, or maybe out of our hands. Death is not a part of our society. Of course sad things are something we wish could be kept far away, but sad doesn’t always equal bad. Hanging out with Jesus and Daddy sounds quite good to me! But I guess most people don’t have this assurance, and maybe that’s why it is easier to keep death at a distant, so we don’t have to think about it. But how can we see God if we think we are God ourselves and act like him?
(This doesn’t meen I am against child control or pro death, just thinking…)
Another thing I read about in a book. It is again about us westerners. This quite clever guy Sven Something says in his book about depression that we have changed fear into agony (ångest). In many developing countries people fight for their lives and they fear death. We do not have to fight for our lives, seems like many of us do not want our lives at all. We are afraid of things from the inside, we fear rejection and loneliness. Often we are not really aware of what we fear and this gives us agony, which is really hard to let go.
I think the solution to many problems is Love. If we know we are loved with everything we hide and dream of, we would not be so afraid of being let down or unwanted. Jesus said that we should love one another, and that it is the greatest commandment, all the others could be concluded in this one.
So, pray for Love to enter your heart, so that you are really filled with it, and it runs over into everything else you do. Make your day, and make your friends day, say: I like you, or: I love you, or: you are welcome just as you are.
With God anything is possible!
(Now I’ll stop preaching…)